My Boyfriend Won't Have s**x With Me, but Watches P**rn And Looks at Other Women What Can I Do? [Read More]

Dr Petra Boynton, the Telegraph's sex and relationships expert offers advice to a woman whose partner has previously enjoyed casual sex and now misses 'the thrill of the chase'

I've been with my boyfriend for several years and the relationship is great in most ways. Before me, he'd never had a long-term partner, only casual sex and has slept with nearly a hundred women. He watches a lot of porn and masturbates at least once a day. However, he has lost interest in sex with me. He looks at other women a lot, even when he is with me. He's adamant he loves me, finds me attractive and would never cheat. He says the problem is because he associates sex with the 'thrill of the chase'. Do we have any hope for a future? I'm in my 30s and would like to start a family. 

I often wish that I had a crystal ball to see into the future. Although in this case I don’t need one and nor do you. Because you already have the ability to decide whether this relationship is right for you - and to end it, if it's not.