10 Signs She Wants You To Ask Her Out

Sometimes its hard to know if a girl is sending you signals to ask her out, or if she is just friendly, or is actually obsessed with your friend, or what. But watch closely forthesecues, because if shes throwing them at you, it means shes probably hoping you ask her out. So just work up the courage to do it and do it. Godspeed!

1. SHE STARTS LIKING SOMETHING RANDOM YOU LIKE AFTER YOU MENTIONED YOU LIKED IT.

Oh, whats that? She likes Neko Case all of the sudden? Wowza, what a huge coincidence. She knows all about the Manchester United game even though two days ago she knew shit about soccer? Holy smokes. She knows all about the new Kid Cudi album that just dropped after you were just saying how excited you were about it? Yeah, these arent coincidences, so dont overlook them. Dont make her feel dumb by saying, Ohpleaseyou said youhatesoccer! Follow her lead. Let her brag about her new knowledge. Teach her something new. Plan a date around it. Because youre definitely going to want to ask her out.

2. SHE TOUCHES YOUR ARM A LOT.

Sorry, its all weve got, guys. We want to touch you but many places seem off limits. Touching your face would make us feel like we are in a Hallmark commercial, touching your chest would make us feel like we were in a Lifetime movie, and touching your junk would make us feel like we were in a porno. Basically, that leaves the arm. So we touch it a lot if we are interested. If you can think of something better let us know.

3. SHE LAUGHS AT EVERYTHING YOU SAY.

Yeah, even when you arent really saying anything that funny. Sorry. Its something we cant help and we probably arent proud of. Its not that we are faking it, we are just really giddy to be around you if we have a crush on you. So everything seems a little lighter, a little more fun, and a little more likely to make us bust our gut or snort or Im just going to say it: pee our pants a little. JUST A LITTLE SOMETIMES OKAY?

4. SHE KEEPS ASKING YOU TO DO THE MOST ODD, UN RELATIONSHIPS THINGS.

If she keeps asking you to do non-date things, like going to weird comedy shows that are sort of far away or going to her brothers baseball game or feeding the neighbors cat, she is doing the dance of doing absolutely everything except for asking you out on a real date. So why dont you do everyone a favor and ask her out? You both will have a better time doing something other than working her hectic charity event or helping her move.

5. SHE SENDS YOU MAIL.

Real mail. She had to get paper and a writing device which are increasingly becoming hard to come by. She had to write with her handwriting, which she hardly does anymore. She put way more thought into her words since she wasnt just shooting them out on her keyboard. And she licked and sealed the envelope. That is love. Or at least mega-like. Ask her out, for goodness sake.

6. SHE ALWAYS WANTS TO BE IN PICTURES WITH YOU.

Are there a disproportionate amount of pictures of you with her than with other people? Especially guys? She wants be be part of your life. She wants to show you off. She wantsyouto rememberher. She is inserting herself into your life in the only way she can without asking you out.

7. SHE HAS AGREED TO DO ANYTHING YOU HAVE SUGGESTED SO FAR.

If youre asking her to do anything with a group of friends or anything non-datey, and you hardly have to finish the question Do you want to go rock climb or Do you want to grab a bee before she says yes, shed rather be doing these things as your girlfriend. Especially if she says it like its not even a question. Of course she will! With gusto, shell be there with bells on! Shes psyched about anything becauseyouwill be there.

8. SHE HASNT MENTIONED ANY OTHER GUYS IN YOUR PRESENCE.

Thats because shes not thinking of any other guys. And she wont even bring up friend boys, because she doesnt want you to assume they are boyfriends.

9. SHE BRINGS YOU SOMETHING WHEN YOURE SICK OR SIMILARLY COOKS YOU ANYTHING EVER.

Yeah, shes showing you her nurturing side. Its not because shes filling some gender role, shes just seizing the opportunity to be sweet. Its an easy in to make you a casserole or drop by with some ginger ale.

10. YOU HAVE MET HER FRIENDS AND THEY SEEM SURPRISINGLY PSYCHED TO MEET YOU.

They are already excited to see you and already know what you do because they have heard about you. In fact, they might be sick of you. They might be thinking, Will you just ask heroutalready? So go ahead and do it.